Why am i not dating
He has a girlfriend, but either swears he'll break up with her for you or already has.
You have to ask yourself: is there a part of you that would freak out if the flaky guy stopped flaking?
This guy changes his mind about you and the relationship all the time.
What started off as pure romantic bliss has turned into him threatening to break up every time you do that bothers him. Greenberg explains that this behavior is a form of narcissism, and that he can't see his partners beyond being either a completely flawless soul mate, or a wholly bad person.
But if this is a general pattern in all your relationships, it could be a sign of a deeper problem.“There are people who, at the first sign of ambivalence, are out of there – they want a secure attachment," says Dr. Greenberg explains that pursuing clearly inconsistent people can be a sign that you're afraid of going for someone who will actually show up for you.
You might also find yourself only liking people who live far away, or are already in relationships, because there's a comfort in no commitment.