Subconscious mind dating
I’m not a tall guy, and I found even if I was the nicest guy in the world to a woman, it didn’t attract her.
So, I kinda resigned myself to the fact that I’d never be attractive to women.
The good news is that there are effective, new ways that can reprogram our unconscious minds to move them from injecting us with fear to bathing us in love. First, before we can reprogram the unconscious mind, we have to get clear about what our conscious mind wants and needs. Put your hand over your heart and imagine that you can breathe in love with every breath and breathe out love. Continue doing that for about 10 breaths in and out.
Now, imagine a time when you felt unconditional love.
When you’re first starting out, get good at triggering these 5 attraction switches for at least 25 minutes.
25 minutes because that’s the time frame from opening a group to C1 or building comfort with her.
He argued there are 5 attraction switches in the female mind.
It often keeps us from finding a partner (that’s why dating sites have become so popular) or keeping our love alive and well once we’ve found a partner (that’s why divorce continues to plague us and even couples who stay together are not getting the best of what love can offer).
At first, incorporate these DHV “spikes” or triggers into the stories you tell and in your behavior. This isn’t something you do in a bar just to attract women.
But if you’re going to tell stories, tell them to the group, not to your target. At first, if you do say anything to her, neg her or banter with her. When you’re in comfort with her, obviously continue to incorporate these traits into your stories and behavior. One difference between the attract and comfort phase is let HER talk. Like I said at the beginning of all this, this is about becoming these traits so they naturally come across without you even having to think about it.
She’ll instantly feel a pang of curious attraction for you if she sees this. Have women around you is the easiest way to trigger this switch. This is the practice of “Preselection” and “Leader of Men.” 2. In fact, practice smiling to at least three strangers a day.
You have value for other women, so you must have value for her. If you don’t have girls to roll with, be talking to everyone in the bar or lounge. Women see this, and they want to be where the excitement is. This is the practice of “Willingness to emote.” If you want to take this step further, learn a musical instrument.