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So, from a personal perspective, it is intriguing’.Psychologically speaking, however, she says ‘the majority of researchers do believe that the preference for older man can be linked to our fathers.Yes, she says, ‘I think that might have something to do with when he grew up – he remembers Thatcherism properly, and what it was like when New Labour came in, and he’s never been exposed to 21st Century lad culture in any way, which I think is really nice’.Similarly, Susan (not her real name) is 27 and currently about to move in with her 44-year-old boyfriend Shaun (yep, not his name either).‘It is funny that you contacted me about this when you did’ she says, ‘last weekend I met some friends from college and I realised that we were all married to older men.Most of us had husbands about three to four years older, but some of us had husbands that were ten years older.
This preference exists cross-culturally which suggests that it is nearly universal’.We think we know why we’re attracted to older men but is there more to it than we realise? She says that there is scientific evidence which suggests that ‘dad or shag’ is both a psychological and evolutionary phenomenon and not just a cultural cliché.‘The research in this area shows that not only are younger women attracted to older men, but older men are attracted to younger women, a convenient situation for heterosexual couples’ she explains.But, reservations aside, Susan fell for completely for Shaun. He just said ‘I fancy you do you wanna go for a drink or something’, so I said ‘yeah I fancy you as well’ and then went for drinks.Then he was like ‘what do you want to do because I know you are connected with another relationship.