Is dating two guys at once ok
The two men are quite different – Tim has dark hair, dark eyes and is very creative and quiet.
I like that the two men are opposites and I got on so well with both of them. My second dates were both fantastic and that’s when I realised I needed to make a decision if there was going to be a third date – which man did I want to spend most of my time with?
I know it sounds like a great problem to have but the big issue for me was that I really liked both of them equally.
The other amazing thing is that they’re both very into me – something I hadn’t experienced in five years!
The way I saw it, I might as well play the field a little bit and see who was out there as I’d been alone for so long.
My date with Mark was just as great as my date with Tim and he also asked me on a second date.
It’s working out well so far – it’s only been two months – but I know I can’t deceive them both forever. But my decision isn’t going to be about sex, it’s going to be about chemistry and which of the guys I feel more emotionally connected to.
I was really happy when he asked me on a second date.
The day after I met Tim, I agreed to meet up with another guy I met on Tinder, Mark – I didn’t want to focus on just one guy.
I’d been in what I call a 'relationship drought' for five years – I’d had a few disastrous dates, a two month on/off boyfriend but no serious boyfriend.
So, I thought it was time to get onto Tinder as so many of my friends were hooking up with great guys on there.