Dominant women dating
In my experience I have found that there are two subjects that seem to make people lose their minds like no others when discussed, these are: sex lives and race.
I was recently invited to Club Pedestal, described by its founders as "a playground for the dominant woman, and those that worship her".
I try not to think about any of that stuff.” I asked her if anybody comes in that wants to indulge in ‘race play'. He tries to interrupt our conversation and I tell him to be quiet, which I would have done in or out of this club to be fair. Despite the fact that I am often described as an ‘alpha female’ this type of thing has never appealed to me mainly because my battles for equality have taken place in real life settings like working in a male prison, as a female on the comedy circuit or trying to have my voice heard in a world that often silences and erases the experiences of women of colour like me.
I am not saying that all of the white people on this scene are racist or that the black people (and there are plenty) are sell-outs. I have too many balls to step on in everyday life (metaphorically of course) to enjoy doing it in a sterile environment.
A friend of mine works as a dominatrix and has been inviting me to go along for a while but it had never been a scene that has interested me. As I left the female heaven that is Club Pedestal, I was brimming with a sense of empowerment ...
I can't recommend a night at Club Pedestal enough – it's the ultimate girl's night out." I felt obliged to check it out and report back to my fellow sisters.