Dating the married man
Even if he does leave his wife and eventually enters into a committed relationship with you, the nagging feeling that he's a proven cheater may weigh on you heavily.If you are single and having a relationship with a married man, it will not be as fulfilling as dating a single guy.While there are several positive elements of having a love affair with a married man, the downsides are many and potentially devastating.The married man is putting his marriage at risk having an affair with you, and you risk the same if you are also married.The married man may fulfill you in ways other men have not.
Anyone willing to get involved with a married man should take a close look at their motives and what compels them into such a situation.Sometimes the hope of having a love affair is that he will leave his wife and marry you. However, the majority of the time, the married man only wants to have an affair.Even if he says he loves you and plans to leave his wife, nothing is certain as long as he is still married. The problem comes when you expect the fantasy to continue.The relationship has to be secret; you can't have your parents meet him, and he will be in the arms and bed of another woman. He won't be able to drop everything to come help you if you need assistance since he's trying to keep you a secret from his spouse.You will probably always come second in his priorities - this can wreak havoc with your own self-esteem.