Dating non believer
If they are not down with respecting you for taking this season in your life to grow more as a woman, then you need to pray for them that they may understand your heart and that you are letting yourself be prepared for your future husband.
When you are not equally yoked to a believer of a very close maturity level in your relationship with Christ and when you don’t have a very similar philosophy on how to live your life, then you should not enter into a relationship with that person.
I told my youth pastor about her because she wasn’t in the youth group.
I tried to convince him (and myself) that it would be good for me to date her so that she might come to youth group and become a Christian. A few years before this, my youth minister gave our youth group a lesson we called “the triangle talk.” This talk consisted of a triangle drawn out, and the guy on the left base of the triangle and the girl on the right base.
(I actually fell for this one myself as a high school and college-aged woman.) But since I now understand how important it is that we understand God’s truth on this subject, I decided to recruit a friend of mine to be a voice of reason. He just happens to be a handsome, funny college student who is currently serving as the youth ministry intern at my church. How do we convince them that they should only date Christians?
I asked him to read the parts of this blog where young women were talking about dating non-Christians. ” I think that Brice’s insights on this topic are wise and thought-provoking, and they may just be exactly what you need to hear as you search for truth in this area of your lives.
Ask God now to prepare you and your future husband for the time when you will be wed.I am now 22 years old, and I have had five different girlfriends over the years and had crushes on many others.The first two girls I dated were Christians, in the sense that they went to the same church and youth group I was in. We’d hang out, watch movies, talk on the phone, hold hands, and go to dances.How you will give your time, money, and energy in service to the Lord?Are you both fine with living by faith and not have any real plans except to follow the Lord?