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Beth Bailey and Ken Myers explain in the Mars Hill Audio Report, , demonstrated through the number and variety of dates a young adult could command, sometimes even on the same night.In the late 1940s, Margaret Mead, in describing this pre-war dating system, argued that dating was not about sex or marriage.Technology isn’t the only thing that makes today’s dating scene different, either.Compared to modern-day society, young adults in the ’50s, ’60s, and ’70s were just beginning to embrace free love, and primarily only had one thing on their minds: marriage.Instead, it was a “competitive game,” a way for girls and boys to demonstrate their popularity.In 1937, sociologist Willard Waller published a study in the .Beth Bailey comments, “Popularity was clearly the key — and popularity defined in a very specific way.
With anti-war, anti-segregation, and women’s rights sentiments in the air, young people didn’t want to be tied down like their parents were.
Dating today could not be more different than it was half a century ago.
Today, the dating world is overrun by apps, websites, and online matchmaking services that make it possible to find your soulmate with the swipe of a finger. People had to jump through hoops, dial numbers on landlines, and ask parents for permission before they could so much as take someone out for a milkshake.
His study of Penn State undergraduates detailed a “dating and rating” system based on very clear standards of popularity.
Men’s popularity needed outward material signs: automobile, clothing, fraternity membership, money, etc.