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After a few months, it was having a toxic effect on my love life, as I was expecting each date to go poorly and actually, in many ways, wanted it to go poorly, so that I had more to write about (and more to complain about).
I quit that writing job as a result of this toxic effect and my love life opened up in a way I hadn’t experienced.
And, while I’m sure you’ve had to endure some less-than-ideal situations, harping on them and them is only attracting more of them.
I used to write for a website and all I did was complain about dating.
If your expectations are built based on someone’s fantasy put onto a screen, then you might be missing out on someone that’s right in front of you.
Sure, love is magical and can lift you to places you never expected, but it also demands you be vulnerable and open, which you can’t be unless you believe in relationships that are rooted in truth — not some fairy tale.
However, if you’re fixated on the disappointment of love, you will see the disappointment around you.Once I stopped the story about dating and opened that up to be something else entirely (and even a positive experience), I found myself dating.We, as humans, do not know what we want, nor what will make us happy.When I believed I was inadequate because of being single, all I saw was my inadequacy.When I let that belief go, all I saw was how the belief was dictating my romantic life.