Dating and going out

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When talking about it, how else is she supposed to refer to it besides using the word relationship?

I don't think a word exists for that without sounding pretentious.

I’m a writer, I think that’s why this confusion bothers me.

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Just wanted to hear some opinions, feedback on this Personally, I think the one month marker is the time to decide if it's a relationship or time to cut loose.

Before that, you're still getting to know one another and someone who seems wonderful at first may not be so great after all and someone who was just meh can show they're actually worthwhile. After one month you've got a handful of dates under your belt and a better picture of how each of you feels about one another.

If she wants to be exclusive, I would ask her to be my girlfriend tomorrow, but I have not done that because I wanted us both to take our times and let things develop.

What other word should she use that wouldn't sound presumptive either way?

I think when you want things to be exclusive, there should be a talk about this. Do you also have to tell your date that you're seeing other people? Because I often wonder if I'm obligated to tell whoever I may be seeing at the time that they aren't the only ones in the picture. If you want to disclose that information, that's one thing, but for me, it either didn't come up, or it came up organically and discreetly, as in: Dude: Are you doing anything next Friday?

If she wants to be exclusive, I would ask her to be my girlfriend tomorrow, but I have not done that because I wanted us both to take our times and let things develop Do you also have to tell your date that you're seeing other people? Because I often wonder if I'm obligated to tell whoever I may be seeing at the time that they aren't the only ones in the picture.

I'm assuming you both consider each other to be romantic potentials rather than platonic friends.

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