Dating again at 45
Eldad recommends searching Linkedin for a dating coach that melds with your personality, is ICF certified (that stands for International Coaching Federation), and has a proven track record."Do not modify who you are, do not copy someone else's profile, and for goodness sake," says Eldad, "stay away from trite quotes." To attract the kind of person you want to be with, it's most important that your profile reflects your authentic self.For example, she suggests changing your mindset from “dating is scary and difficult” to “dating is fun and easy.” Dissolving any pesky thoughts will help you date with positivity.It's safe to assume most people have something they're struggling with.
That way, she says, "you'll have exciting things to discuss on a date, whether it's travel plans, the latest restaurant, or even new places and activities going on in your city." When you're the best version of yourself, "it can be magnetic," says Shaklee.
If you’re single and over 40, chances are your BFF, your parents, your siblings, and maybe even the stranger in the checkout line are offering you their unsolicited dating advice.
While Aunt Debbie may have some wisdom, we'd rather leave it to the pros.
Just like a trainer at the gym helps you push yourself, a dating coach kicks your love life into shape.
"In every area of our lives, we hire people to help us," says Gandhi.