Dating a prisoner
However, your particular fiancé not only got arrested – he violated probation. How important was it to him not to violate probation? Is this behavior of getting arrested normal among his family? Is it because you don’t have the guts to say what you know that they will – which is, dump him and find someone better and more deserving of the grand prize that you are?There are questions only you can know the answers to – and you may not want to hear them, but it’s imperative to your well being that you try to: Is this his first offense? Are you acting out by trying to marry someone that you know will upset your parents in a backwards way to get their attention?Welcome to Prison Inmates Online, the perfect place to "Write To Prisoners".Have you ever wanted prison pen pals or to write a prisoner?The saying that "there's someone for everyone" has never been truer than in the case of women who seek out men who are on death row, for romance.
So by becoming a pen pal to an inmate you are actually doing a good service to society.
Signed, My Fiance’s In Jail " Dear My Fiance’s in Jail: First of all, you’re 37 years old. You need to have your own life separate from what your parents think. If you expect them to not judge him and to be supportive of your decision to marry him, YOU are the one with unrealistic expectations.
You cannot “get them” to not judge him and be supportive of your decisions. Besides the fact that they don’t have to judge him – a real judge already did – and found him guilty. Third, unless your family has a history of having family members incarcerated, so that having a husband or a fiancé in jail is somewhat normal, you have made a bad choice.
Dating Men Behind Bars Instead of Men In Bars: Eric Menendez, one of the Menendez brothers who is on death row, met his fiance as a pen pal who wrote him in jail.
In fact, many women write to men who are on death row -- either seeking them out themselves, or answering ads that prisoners put in newspapers or other public media outlets looking for companionship and more.