Dating a narcissist
Suddenly the attention they so lavishly gave you is gone and replace by indifference and silence.Days or weeks could go by and you won’t hear from them.I don’t feel like I belong anywhere or with anyone.” Narcissists are completely self-absorbed and are oblivious to the wants and needs of others.They enter into relationships in an attempt to fill this void and to make sure that they have someone who is always available for sex, an ego stroke or whatever need they may have.People usually get into relationships for love and the need to connect and bond with another.Narcissists get into relationships for entirely different reasons.A relationship with a Narcissist has been compared to being on a roller coaster, with immense highs and immense lows.They have been described as the proverbial Jekyll and Hyde, one way one minute, another the next.
It’s like I’m always chasing a carrot at the end of a stick. I feel like I only do things because I’m supposed to, because society does it.
Their target is the greatest thing since sliced bread.
Here the Narcissist is ecstatic, full of hopes and dreams.
Typically, they will choose a victim based on their status.
They must be attractive, popular, rich or extremely gifted in some area.