Dating a commitment phobic man
“This is a huge problem and translates into the fact that he doesn’t think you’re worthy of becoming wife material,” Ziegler says.“Any guy who is truly committed wants to show his lady off to family.” Similarly, “someone who will never commit to you will probably never invite you to come out and join him with his friends,” Bregman points out.
“If a man is inclined to view you with a more serious set of eyes, then the balance here is probably equal,” Bregman says.
Great relationships allow people to connect on multiple levels: physically, emotionally, and maybe even spiritually.
“If the guy you’re seeing is only interested in physically connecting with you, to the exclusion of all others, it probably means that he’s not trying to get to know you very deeply.
These kinds of mixed messages show that even if he does say he’s ready to make things official, you may not be able to trust his word.
Avoiding major life events and holidays is a classic commitment-phobic move, according to Sansone-Braff, and he might not even realize he’s doing it.