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Although modern women now take on very masculine roles in society (e.g.boss at work, leader of a country, UFC fighter, etc), deep down they still want to be able to feel feminine and girly in their private, romantic relationship with a man.
You literally have your choice of women and whatever turns you on the most, is yours for the taking.
Since she has a more masculine way of being, she tends to attract feminine or neutral men, but that’s not what she really wants deep down.
She wants a man who is more masculine than her, but who doesn’t need her to change or be softer around him.
So, redefine your limits and get what you really want.
Lots of women seeking older men already know where to find them.